Prayer is sacred. It's the private war room where we download heaven’s wisdom. But sis, at some point, you’ve got to get up off your knees and build something. God isn’t raising lazy daughters. Needing isn't ministry. He’s raising Queens — like the Proverbs 31 woman— who pray, plan, produce, and protect their households. Let…

Let’s be clear about something from the start: I’ve never been one to compete. Not over men. Not over attention. Not even over what’s mine by divine assignment. What God has for me is  mine —period.  So if I was rejected? I trust it was protection. A divine "no" to avoid a lifetime of unnecessary heartache. And if I’m ho…

Have you ever heard the phrase “the feeling gets the blessing” ? It’s more than just spiritual-sounding fluff—it’s a truth that can shift everything. In this life, especially as a woman trying to keep the faith, build a legacy, and be everything for everyone (and yourself!), there are moments you don’t feel blessed. You might feel…

I remember being a young, churchy girl, rocking my braids and patent leather shoes, when Destiny’s Child dropped that anthem —“I need a soldier.” Baby, I was humming it in the back pew, thinking I was singing in code. But then the church leaders shut it down quick. The men, of course...  Saying,  “No, baby, you don’t need no soldie…